I still wanted to go to the basketball games, I really liked those.
This is what landed her in her current profession which she is famously recognized for.
In fact, if it wasn't for one such experience, I wouldn't have had the confidence or connections available to me to develop and launch DateBrokeCollegeGirls.
It was there that Buffy learned about her involvement in Kendra's activation.
The long er version: Jennifer LaGarde aka library girl! Despite her reservations about saving a vampire, Kendra aided Buffy in the rescue of Angel from Spike and Drusilla where she witnessed the love they felt for each other.
After figuring out Kendra's predictable style she was able to use her unorthodox style of fighting to get close and grapple her, Drusilla hypnotized Kendra and put her in a trance.